How to find out if someone you’ve lost touch with has passed away

Published: 13/11/2023

When you're seeking information about the status of a person you've lost touch with or trying to gather details about someone important in your community, there are several methods to ascertain whether someone has passed away in Australia. Here are the steps you can take:

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Reach out to them

It seems obvious enough, but a thoughtful gesture is to simply contact the individual you're concerned about directly. You can do this over the phone or in person. Even if your relationship isn't particularly close, expressing your concern will likely be appreciated. Loneliness can have a profound impact on a person's mental and physical well-being, especially among older community members. Your caring inquiry may provide them with much-needed comfort, and in the process, you might discover the information you're seeking. You can write a letter or an email, give them a phone call or message them through social media.

Contact family and friends

If you're hesitant to reach out to the person directly, consider contacting their family or their friends. They may have information about the individual's well-being or any unfortunate events that may have occurred. In the event of a passing, they can inform you about the situation and even collaborate with you to publish a death or funeral notice, ensuring that others in the community are informed.  

Search for a death notice

The most reliable and convenient way to determine if someone has passed away in Australia is to search for death, funeral and tribute notices. My Tributes is a trusted source for this information, available both in print and online. You can find local and recent death notices in your local newspaper, or in metropolitan state newspapers if your local community newspaper no longer prints. The My Tributes section of News Corp Australia newspapers regularly curates daily death notices. You can also find notices online at mytributes.com.au or through the "Tributes" link found in the top right hand corner on your preferred News Corp website.

Check social media

Another avenue is to explore social media. If you're unable to find information about a person's passing through traditional means, you can inspect their social media profiles. Often, friends and family members post tributes or condolences on the person's page when they pass away. However, it's essential to exercise caution when relying solely on social media information, as it may not always be accurate. It's advisable to follow up with the aforementioned methods to confirm the situation.

Discover how to find out if someone has died in Australia with step-by-step guide
Discover how to find out if someone has died in Australia with step-by-step guide

Visit or contact hospitals and healthcare facilities

Hospitals and healthcare facilities keep records of patients admitted or treated. If you have reason to believe that the person may have been hospitalised, you can inquire at local hospitals or healthcare centres. They may not disclose specific medical information, but they can sometimes confirm whether the person is a patient.

Obituary websites

In addition to My Tributes and local newspapers, there are dedicated obituary websites where you can search for obituaries and death notices. These websites often provide a comprehensive database of recent obituaries.

Contact places of worship

If the person you're inquiring about is known to be religious and active in a particular place of worship, you can reach out to the religious institution. They may have information about recent events in the person's life, including any memorials or funerals.

Check with employers or educational institutions

Contacting the person's employer or educational institution, if applicable, can also yield information about them. Employers may be aware of extended absences and educational institutions can confirm enrollment or attendance.

Remember to approach these methods with sensitivity and respect for privacy. In many cases, obtaining information about someone's passing may require a valid reason or familial connection due to privacy regulations. Always consider the legal and ethical implications of your inquiries, and be prepared to provide a legitimate reason when seeking information from official sources.

If you encounter difficulties finding a death or funeral notice for a recently deceased person, you can seek further guidance and information on why this might be the case here.

To place a death or funeral notice, you can visit mytributes.com.au and click on "Place a notice" to initiate the process.

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