Where to find grief support services in NSW
Find grief support in NSW to find solace on your healing journey and guidance on how to support someone...
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We're Sally and Imogen (aka Sal and Im), co-hosts of the Good Mourning grief podcast and authors. We're passionate about helping people to cope with grief positively, and a big part of that is through the power of storytelling. It's a powerful way to cope with grief, connect to others, and keep their memory alive - all essential things. We have both lived through the experience of loss. Our mums died suddenly, months apart, in late 2019 and early 2020. Sal's mum, Rose, died from a sudden seizure called SUDEP, and Im's mum, Vanessa, died by suicide.
It was through our grief and desire to hear stories from others about how they had coped with loss that we met and were inspired to start the Good Mourning podcast. We believe that sharing with others keeps our mum's memories alive, and we feel connected. Through words, we connect with their spirit and find solace in the bond we shared. It's really helped us cope on the tough days.
An excerpt from our book, Good Mourning: Honest Conversations About Grief and Loss, that shares our individual stories.
"It was 6:00am on 20 November 2019, and I was brushing my teeth in my gym gear, ready to start my day. That was hardly the scenario I imagined myself to be in when I received the call that instantly changed my life. The words on the other end of the phone slowly said, "I need you to steady yourself. Your mum's passed away."
Stunned, I could only reply, "Is this a joke?!". Sadly not. My mum, Rose, who was otherwise healthy, died suddenly from a seizure on the other side of the world. Living far away and reeling from disbelief, I jumped on the next flight home, where my long journey with grief began. You don't expect to lose a parent when you're young, and it broke my heart that I couldn't say goodbye to her. I'd never given grief a thought before she passed - I knew it would touch me one day, but I hadn't prepared myself for its eventuality. The utter shock of her death and the pain of grief were all-consuming. I had lost my anchor, my safety net, and I felt I was utterly unmoored."
"I was in the middle of moving house with my nine-month-old baby girl (also in my gym gear) when I got the call that shattered me to my core. My mum, Vanessa, died by suicide in February 2020. Argh. Even those words on the page don't sit right. Just like that, I was no longer wearing the 'tired new mum' badge. I was now a 'suicide loss survivor'. Where do you even begin with that? Therapy obvs. And lots of it. In the immediate aftermath, I was grief-stricken. How could this be happening? My mum was the last person I would ever expect to take her own life. There was no note, explanation, or goodbye, and I was riddled with anxiety and guilt. I honestly thought that was it for me. GAME OVER. The emotional damage caused by my loss felt irreparable. It was like I was seeing life through a whole new lens of grief and that it was split into "before grief" and "after grief". I wondered whether I would be able to find any light again.
Navigating grief in the same city but unknown to each other, we each longed for someone to connect with who understood our grief. A chance meeting at a support group led us to a sunny pub garden one June afternoon. We hit it off instantly, and our friendship quickly blossomed, becoming the yin to each other's grief yang. As we shared our experiences as newly initiated "grief club" members, we discussed how little Western society talks openly about grief. We wondered what we could do to help change that.
Fuelled by our experiences with grief and not wanting others to feel alone, we started the Good Mourning podcast to create a space for storytelling and to talk about what grief is really like, telling it exactly how it is."