Eulogy example: What can I say about my mum at her funeral?

Published: 2/8/2023

Emotions run deep following the loss of a mother, and finding the right words to capture the essence of her remarkable life can be a challenging time.

To help encourage ideas and support you on your journey, we hope the below eulogy example for a mother serves as a testament to the unwavering love, guidance and support that our mothers so often selflessly provide. Make yours personal by adding your own memories, don't focus on the grammar just yet, just let the conversation flow. You've got this!

Eulogy example for Mum
Eulogy example for Mum

Eulogy example for Mother

Hello everyone, thank you all for coming to honour and remember my Mum, (name).

In the depths of our grief and sorrow today, we come to bid farewell to a woman who was not just a mother, grandmother, wife and sister, but a guiding light in all our lives. My Mum, pillar of strength and compassion, leaves behind a legacy of love that will forever remain etched in our hearts.

Born and raised in (town), the heart of (state), Mum had a spirit that was as boundless as the acreages of land she lived on. She was a true-blue country girl, with a laugh that could brighten the darkest of days and the warmest hug I'll ever know. To me (and siblings), mum was like a beautiful weeping willow tree, providing shade and comfort whenever any of us / I needed it.

Oh, how I will miss her cooking! Shame the apple didn't fall from the tree in that department... From her simple Sunday roast and backyard BBQ's to her mouth-watering caramel slice, Mum's kitchen was food lovers heaven. The pleasure she got from cooking for loved ones mirrored the warmth of her heart, and every meal to her was an opportunity to be together and I will miss these special table moments most of all.

Mum loved to share stories about her life on the farm. Sitting around the campfire, she would spin yarns of her childhood, sharing the family's struggles and achievements, instilling in us a sense of belonging to something greater than ourselves. Her stories wove the tapestry of our family's heritage, and I know we will all be forever grateful for the cultural richness she imparted.

In the face of adversity, Mum was a beacon of resilience. (Personal story here) She taught us that strength doesn't come from avoiding hardships but from facing them head-on. With every challenge that life presented, she demonstrated grace and courage, inspiring us to approach life with the same tenacity and determination.

As a grandmother, Mum was pure magic. Watching her with (names of grandchildren) was witnessing love in its purest form. She doted on them with so much warmth and affection, creating cherished memories that will be passed down through generations.

Though the pain of losing Mum is beyond words, I hope you can find solace in knowing that she lived a life of purpose and love. Her kindness, selflessness and unwavering devotion to family and friends has left an indelible mark on each of us.

In the words of Dorothea Mackellar, "I love a sunburnt country, a land of sweeping plains," and so did Mum. She embraced the Australian spirit wholeheartedly and enriched our lives every single day. Today, as we bid her cheerio, we celebrate a life well-lived, a life filled with love, and a mother who was simply extraordinary.

Rest in peace, Mum. You will forever be our guiding star, shining brightly in the vastness of our hearts. Goodbye, until we meet again on the other side of the horizon.

To find support 

Beyond Blue provides Australians with information and support to improve their mental health. Call 1300 22 46 36 or visit beyondblue.org.au for more information.      

Lifeline Australia provides Australians experiencing a personal crisis with access to 24-hour crisis support. Call 13 11 14 or visit lifeline.org.au for more information.      

GriefLine listens, cares and supports people experiencing loss and grief, at any stage in life. Call 1300 845 6am to midnight AEST, 7 days a week.      

MensLine Australia is a professional telephone and online support and information service for Australian men. Call 1300 78 99 78, 24 hours / 7 days a week.      

Kids Helpline is a free 24/7, confidential and private counselling service Australia wide specifically for children and young people aged 5 to 25 years. Call 1800 55 1800.      

Life Supports Counselling provides Australians with experienced counsellors & psychologists in their local area Australia-wide. Call 1300 735

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