BERMINGHAM, Paul John

BERMINGHAM Paul John 15.11.1975 - 16.12.2013 Passed away peacefully surrounded by family and friends. Beloved son of Lesley and Brian, loved brother of Sarah, loved grandson of Betty and step-son of Terry. Forever in our Hearts Please, don't ask me if I'm over it, I will never be over it. Please, don't tell me he is in a better place, he isn't here with me. Please, don't tell me he isn't suffering, I haven't come to terms with why he had to suffer at all. Please, don't ask me if I feel better, for bereavement isn't a condition that clears up. Please, don't tell me, at least you had him for so many years. What year would you choose for your loved one to die? Please, don't ever tell me that God doesn't give us more than we can handle. Please, just say you are sorry. Please, just say you remember him. Please, just talk to me about him. Please, just mention his name. Please, just let me cry. Paul, I loved you the moment we met and forever more. _ Your Mum Lesley. Paul, I have a hole in my heart that will never be filled, but I am grateful to you for the memories I'll never forget. I will miss you forever my big boy. _ Your father Brian. Paul, thank you for your love and wisdom. You will be missed beyond words, but forever in our hearts. Much loved brother of Sarah, brother-in-law of Mark and adored Uncle `Paulie' of Isabelle. Paul John, my darling boy. I will miss you forever. _ Your Nan. Paul, I'm speechless. Words can't describe how I'm feeling. Won't be the same without you. _ Barb. Paul, I will miss you being here every day. I thank you for being a kind, loving grandson to my Mum. Locked in our hearts forever. _ Jacqui. Paul, it's not the tears at the time that are shed that tell of the heart that is torn, it's the long, long sadness of the after years, and the sorrow that is silently born. FOREVER MISSED Adored nephew of Sue and Mark, dearly loved cousin of Travis. Our Paul Forever Missed Paul, much loved cousin of Liz and Nic, adored `Uncle Paulie' to Blake and Miles.